Mark Hay
How I Maintain a Sex Life With Severe Migraine Attacks
“We can masturbate together, each doing our own thing, and that’s still an intimate experience.”
How Endometriosis Affects Your Sex Life
“I've realized that positions where I have more control of everything help me limit my pain, because I'm only doing what’s comfortable for me at any moment.”
How Starting Testosterone Changed My Sex Life
"Within two months of going on T, I suddenly had an insatiable sex drive."
Vaginal Dryness Sucks—But It Doesn't Have to Ruin Your Sex Life
“I’ve learned that sex just always feels better when you use lube.”
Having Sex Could Break My Bones. Here’s How I Do It
“Adjustments usually involve finding ways to keep your partner’s full weight off of you.”
I Have an Inflammatory Bowel Disease. Here’s How It Affects My Sex Life.
“There’s just so little information out there on what’s safe with anal play.”
How Does Chronic Prostate Pain Affect Your Sex Life in Your 30s?
A couple discusses figuring how to enjoy themselves again after “sex became this medicalized thing.”
I Have Face Blindness. This Is How It Affects My Sex Life.
“I’ve definitely been sexually attracted to a lot of guys who other people found ugly.”
I Feel Extremely Aroused Even When I'm Not Turned On. This Is How I Have Sex
“I feel like I have to use a fake name and disguise my location to have this conversation.”
I Have Bipolar Disorder. This Is How It Affects My Sex Life
“Does Cassie want this much sex, or does the bipolar mania that’s driving her brain right now want it?”
We Both Have Narcolepsy. This Is How We Have Sex
“I recently tried putting rope restraints on myself to see if I could get out of them on my own, in case Liam ever fell asleep—and I can!”
I Have Schizophrenia. This is How It Affects My Sex Life
“I try to judge if sex will be grounding based on if it feels good and right when we’re cuddling or starting to kiss.”